The 3 H's: Head to Hands to Heart
Are you beyond ready to create a new habit?
A little something from Dr. Joe Dispenza's "Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One":
If You Can Master Suffering, You Can Just as Easily Master Joy
You probably know someone who has mastered suffering, right? So you call her and ask, "How are you?"
So-so.
"Listen, I'm going to go out with some friends to a new art gallery, and then eat at this restaurant that has really healthy desserts. Afterward, we're going to listen to some live music. Would you like to come with us?
No, I don't feel like it.
But if she said what she actually meant, she'd say, I've memorized this emotional state, and nothing in my environment- no person, no experience, no condition, no thing- is going to move me from my internal chemical state of suffering. It feels better to be in pain than to let go and be happy. I am enjoying my addiction for now, and all these things that you want to do might distract me from my emotional dependency.
But guess what? We can just as easily master an internal chemical state such as joy or compassion.
Playlist:
1. "Old Money" by Lana del Rey
2. "Retrograde" by James Blake
3. "Dream Lover" by Bobby Darin
4. "Sutphin Boulevard" by Blood Orange
5. "In the Morning" by Junior Boys
6. "i" by Kendrick Lamar
7. "Hercules" by Aaron Neville
8. "So This Is Goodbye" by Junior Boys
9. "Suzanne" by Nina Simone
10. "Heart Song/ Heart" by Jonathan Goldman